Sometime you see a married couple, which has been living for 60 years together and you think to yourself: “Do people even live that long?!” It is unbelievable how long lasting real love can be. Two people seems to become one and can’t be separated
Of course, it is quite difficult to follow these rules, especially if you are ambitious and emotional. But the rational grain in the said is really present. Perhaps, after reading these rules of a happy family life, you can reconsider your views on marital relations and change them for the better.
We have collected some pieces of advice from couple, married for decades. They shared these tips, from their own experience, so we hope, they will be really interesting and useful for you. Check them out.
#1.Do not think that the profession, career and social prestige will replace your family and children. No matter how hard it can be, you have to learn how to combine them. Do not forget that a woman should pay the necessary attention to her appearance, clothes and everything else, visible and invisible, attributes of femininity.
#2. Try to foster the children with love and respect for their father. Do not compete with him, winning their love. Be generous. Respect his parents, regardless of their qualities or attitudes. He notices, even if he does not show it, your tolerance and nobility.
#3. Don’t make important decisions that are of vital importance to the family on your own. Discuss them with your husband, and although, perhaps in the end, your proposal will be accepted, he will have a feeling that he participated in the decision that you value his opinion.
#4. Try to constantly find positive traits in the nature and appearance of your husband and, if possible, tell him about them. Hearing about his virtues, he will strive to become better. Do not miss the opportunity to talk about how good you are with him. Praising self-esteem strengthens his attachment to you.
#5. Do not let yourself flirt with a colleague or another man. This will cause unnecessary suffering and bring nervousness into the family. A new object is unlikely to be better and more perfect. Think if new emotions are worth ruining a family.
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We at BetterMe want everyone to know and experience true love. It is out there for everyone and until it knocks on your door we are here to remind you that you deserve the best love!
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