Taking the initiative in relationships by a woman is no longer a problem. You can use simple phrases to provoke an increased activity in your man. That's why we're free of restraint and hesitation!
It doesn't matter if you've just met or if you've been dating for a month, texts are useful in both cases: for entertainment or organizational purposes. When we talk about organizational purposes, it's clear. For example: you're late or the restaurant where you were supposed to meet turned out to be closed on Sundays, there's a fire in your house - all these things are obvious reasons to send him a message.
Texts are the inflammations of communication designed to arouse his interest and they do not replace the real conversation. The trick is to ensure that the correspondence is moderate but effective. There is no place for long essays and news exchange. Save these topics for face-to-face meetings. Long hours of texting with a man can make you feel like you are building up a mutual understanding but it's an illusion.
The goodnight texts have a different function and composition. They serve to complete your communication at the end of the day and serve as the last smile you give to your beloved man. Believe me, such expressions of love are important to men as well as to women.
I have to warn you at the outset that all men are different and their reactions can differ. Don't give up if his reaction wasn't as good as you expected.
Today I want to show you examples of texts that will inspire your own message between you and your boyfriend. The content of your texts should differ depending on the relationship you have with a man. Scroll down to learn the details.
#1 You're in a relationship
When people have been in a relationship for awhile, it starts to seem like you've stopped and nothing is happening to you. Don't let your partner get bored in a relationship. By sending such a text, you can let him know that it's still important to you. Changing the text, you can be frank, flirty, alluring or sweet:
“I feel so comfortable with you: if only you were here I’d feel so safe. I love you so much. Goodnight my baby.”
“It’s freezing in my bed. Wishing you were here to keep me warm.”
“I’m so grateful to have you in my life. Goodnight, I really do love you.”
“I don’t want to sound sappy but I get butterflies when I think of you. I’m happy to know you. Sleep well. I love you.”
“I love you so much. Sweet dreams. Goodnight love of my life.”
“I miss you so bad. Sleep well.”
“You must be sleeping or getting ready for bed... just know I can’t stop thinking about you.”
“Goodnight, my handsome man.”
“I don’t know what I’d do without you. You are everything”
You should also consider the nature of the man and his attitude to romantic gestures. If you know your man well and these romantic notions are strange to him, then you should use more ironical texts:
“Hey, Butthead. Even though you’re not saying it I know you’re a warm-hearted person. I love that about you.”
“You make me feel so safe. Yes, I know I sound ridiculous. But whatever it’s true. You’re mine. ;)”
“Remember this song?: Insert name of a song that has a memory attached to it:”
#2 If you have a long-distance relationship
Not all couples are able to maintain their relationship when they are far from each other. In such couples, love is hard work. All the texts we talked about would be suitable for such a relationship, but here's a few more:
“It’s so unfair that we are far apart like this. I would do anything to hold you.”
“I want to cuddle so badly I miss you so much.”
“Know that I am thinking of you. I love you so much. Goodnight.”
“Goodnight love, see you in my dreams :)”
#3 If you are buddies
The period when you're almost in a relationship is very important to any couple. The texts should be more restrained during this period because by showing your affection you can scare him. Use the examples below:
“I’m in bed right now but thinking of you. Wish you were here.”
“Man, you give me butterflies.”
“I hope you have sweet delicious dreams.”
“Goodnight cute person. I hope you wake up smiling in the morning.”
“Goodnight hottest, funniest, coolest, awesome-est person I know.”
“I loved spending the day with you. It was absolutely perfect.”
“Have a good night. I hope you have sweet dreams of me ;)”
#4 Multi-purpose texts
There are universal texts that will help you show your feelings regardless of the relationship you are in:
“I wish you were in bed next to me.”
“I just re-read some of your texts. I’m literally smiling at my phone right now.”
“Thinking of you as I drift off to sleep...”
“I just wanted to say goodnight. Sending you virtual hugs, kisses, squishes, smiles and sweet dreams of me.”
These are important not only to your boyfriend but to you. By sending these texts you have the opportunity to open your heart and be yourself. You also prompt your young man to show his feelings and say what he has been wanting to for so long.
Don't treat the text as something unreal. They're our emotions and feelings that we're sending to each other when we're not together. Don't be afraid to express your feelings.
When we fall in love with someone we tend to idealize but then we disappoint ourselves. Treat your partner objectively and never write things that you don't really feel because you can break his heart.
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