When you start living with a man, you expect him to be a problem solver. You want someone reliable and responsible. Certainly, it is okay to have some expectations, but have you ever thought about your own responsibilities?
Relations is about giving and receiving. You need to share your obligations equally, in order to keep your love life balanced. Both of you need to work constantly and improve yourselves, if you want to develop your relations and grow as a couple.
It is important to understand what you should do in your relations. But today we are going to tell you about 5 things that you should not do. Hopefully, our tips will help you to become more successful and confident in your love life.
#1 Don’t change the way you look for him. If he is dating with you or even living with you, it means that he likes the way you look. Of course, you can make some slight alterations, in order to surprise him, but don’t try to impress him or make him stay with the help of your appearance changing.
#2. Don’t wait for his approval. Even though his opinion should be important and valuable for you, but you need the only person, who makes the final decision about yourself. It goes without saying that you should make family decisions together, though.
#3. Don’t let him change who you really are. This advice is related to the very first one. He might inspire you for changes for better, however it does not mean that you need to forget, who you really are to please your partner. It is not the way it is supposed to be.
#4. Compromise you own wishes. Even though you are a couple, you have separate private lives. So, you are encourage to keep up with your hobbies and to meet your girlfriends. Don’t compromise your wishes, because of your partner’s plans. You should respect each other’s privacy.
#5. Cancel your plans. Of course, there are different conditions and sometime you need to cancel or reconsider your own plans, however, it should be an exception rather than a rule. Your partner should not demand your plans alteration at the last minute.
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