Let’s be honest, when you fall in love it literally seems like your brain goes out of service. You have butterflies in your stomach and you only listen to you heart.” Rationalization? What is that? I have never heard of it?”
“Love is blind” they say. You only notice positive features in your partner’s character. However, sooner or later all the magic will be gone and you will be able to analyze your relationship. We hope, it won’t be a disappointing experience for you.
Today we will teach you how to figure out if your man is manipulating you. We hope he will be always sincere and honest with you. However, we suggest that you learn these signs, just in case. So, check them out.
#1 They don’t help you to solve your problems. They prefer to leave you all alone with your issues. At the same time it seems that they take care of you. They claim that they just don’t want to interfere in your business and personal space. That’s not ok.
#2 They make you feel less confident. You might think that they are just honest with you and point out your weaknesses so that you can turn them into your strengths. However, it is just a trick to make your more dependant.
#3 They often ask you to do them favors. At the same time they don’t strive to make your life easier. They make you feel guilty if you deny them and don’t give you a chance to say “no”. This is called manipulation.
#4 This one is our favorite. They blackmail you emotionally. They know exactly how you react to particular situations and sayings and they play with it. They can drop you a message that will make you feel sad or guilty. Guilt is their favorite emotion to play on.
There are some more important signs that we have decided to share with you today.
#5. They use their charm and flattery to make you do something they need.
#6. They give you the silent treatment if they are unhappy with what you do.
#7. They play dumb.
We at BetterMe want everyone to know and experience true love. It is out there for everyone and until it knocks on your door we are here to remind you that you deserve the best love!
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