Our society is still patriarchal, to some extent. However, women are getting more and more emancipated. Still there are a lot of rules and expectations that exist for men control. They are especially relevant for romantic relationship.
Men are supposed to be initiators of relations, while women are supposed to be beautiful, in order to please their men. Times are changing and there are some rules that appear especially for women.
Today we want to tell you about 8 things that you should never do for your man. These tips will help you to remain your relationship happy and healthy. Stop doing these things and you will see how your life changes for better.
#1. Don’t grade yourself down
People percept you they way as you show yourself up. How can you expect someone to value yourself up, if you are downgrading yourself constantly. Fake it till you make it. Act like a queen.
#2. Don’t solve all his problems
Even if it obvious for you how to solve the problems, you’d better not. It will make him feel weaker than you, which is not good at all. Help him to be the king. Just hint and let him think that it is him, who found the solutions.
#3. Don’t change the way you look
We are talking about something as radical, as plastic surgery. It is ok to surprise your partner and improve yourself, however, if he still finds you not attractive enough, you should leave him.
#4. Don’t put yourself beneath him
You are equal to your man. Remember you should strive for resemblance in your partnership. It does not work any other way. He must respect and appreciate you.
#5. Don’t buy him expensive gifts all the time
Yes, it is nice to please him and to present him something really nice, but don’t make it regularly. It is better to surprise him, rather than to make him used to it. The later will lead to the loss of the value of your gift.
#6. Don’t hide your intellect
Women should be smart enough to support any conversation. You should develop your intellect and show it up. AT the same time you are not supposed to be nerdy.
#7. Don’t give up your career
Remember successful woman is able to combine love life and career. What is more, you should stay authentic and not depend on your man fully.
#8. Don’t give up your dreams
Your man should help you to reach for the stars, not prevent you from doing what you want. Otherwise, there is no need to stay in such relationship.
We at BetterMe want everyone to know and experience true love. It is out there for everyone and until it knocks on your door we are here to remind you that you deserve the best love!
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