From the early childhood girls are fostered in a very strange way. We have been told what are we supposed to be like and what men would like to see in us. These stereotypes grow up a society of unhappy woman.
Another bad thing that we have been told is that we owe something to someone. That is so not true. We don’t owe even a thing that we think we do. Especially to men. Women should finally realize that they are free and independent.
Today we want to tell you about 15 things that women don’t owe to men. So, if you still feel obliged to do these things, forget about it immediately. Hope, you will like our post. Don’t forget to leave your feedback.
There is another stereotype that should be mentioned, before the explanation of these point. People think that men are literally addicted to sex and women are suppose to please them. No, sex is mutual act of love. You don’t owe sex.
#2. Niceness and smile.
Women are human. So, we can be in a bad mood and people around should respect it. Sometimes, we just don’t feel like smiling and be super positive and it is ok. Don’t force yourself.
#3. Being more than friends.
No means no and men should respect your choice. Even if he is an alfa-man of the community, you don’t owe to accept his offer and to date him. It ok to reject someone. You just need to put it mildly.
#4. Talking to someone.
Yes, we live in a very open society and “small talks” are supposed to be normal for us. This rule is not extrapolated on “long talks”. Again, you can simply be in a bad mood, or don’t feel like talking at all.
#5. Gratitude for non-asked attention
For some reason women are supposed to be pleased by men’s attention. They also must to have gratitude to it. No, that is not true. You must not. Remember it.
#6. Making men feel comfortable
Wrong again. It is not about only women’s effort and willing to create cozy and comfy atmosphere. It is about efforts of two people, who are willing to spend time together.
#7. Gratitude for being nice.
This one is similar to the “Gratitude for unwanted attention”. Sometimes you just don’t like a guy and you don’t want to communicate with him. Your gratitude for presents and attention can be accepted as “yes”. So, you don’t owe it.
Of course, you have absolutely no right to offense other people. However, if you feel that you are manipulated or, if you simply don’t feel sorry, you don’t owe an apology.
#9. An explanation for time for yourself
If you just don’t feel like spending time in company, feel blue, or want to have some rest, you are not supposed to explain why. Your decision should be respected. You don’t owe any explanations.
You don’t need to agree with someone, if you have different points of view. Even if this is your man. You should not diffuse into him. You don’t owe to agree with his opinion.
#11. You don’t owe to accept offers and say “yes”
Well, you know, you can challenge yourself and make a “say yes day” just for fun. At the rest of the time you should remember that there is no need to say “yes”, if you don’t feel like.
#12. Explanation for your food and clothes preferences
Your taste should be taken as granted. You don’t an explanation for the red jacket, you are wearing tonight or a pasta that you ordered. It’s your choice. That’s it.
We at BetterMe want everyone to know and experience true love. It is out there for everyone and until it knocks on your door we are here to remind you that you deserve the best love!
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