All people want to have perfect relationship. Unfortunately, very often they think that everything is very simple. They think that it's enough to meet a special person and to fall in love with them. However, it's the biggest mistake.
A romantic relationship is a rather complicated thing, which demands a lot of efforts and patience. People should do a great job until they will be ready to build a family. It always takes a lot of time to understand and accept each other the way people are.
Unfortunately, there are things which can easily ruin your relationship. That's why today we have prepared for you this information. Here are 12 things which make your man lose interest in you. Maybe this will help you to maintain happy and strong relationship.
#1. Being desperate
Of course, we all should be sincere and open-minded. We should say what we really think and want. However, in romantic relationship everything is a bit different. It's OK to show your man that you love him. But you should do it carefully. You should keep some mystery between you and him. Let him stay interested in you. If he has an opportunity to read you like an opened book, sooner or later he will get bored.
#2. Acting like a fool
There are many women who think that by being naive and fool they can attract men's attention. However, it's a big mistake. Men are more interested in mature and intelligent women, who are able to build serious relationship.
#3. Talking about your ex
For some reason many women repeat this mistake again and again. Don't do it. Even if he asks you about your ex, you should answer as shortly, as you can. The less information you give, the better.
#4. Being too easy
Whatever you think, both partners should work for their relationship equally. It's not OK if you are doing your best for your loved one and your well-being, and he doesn't even lift a finger for you. You should value yourself.
#5. Doing everything for him
You should never do and decide everything for him. He will lose all his interest in you otherwise. He is a man and he has to be strong and independent. Let him make decisions on his own. You can just help him a bit.
#6. Demanding too much
You shouldn't demand too much from him. No one likes to be forced to do something. The same thing is in the relationship. If you want him to be with you, be patient, calm and helpful. He will leave very soon otherwise.
#7. Being someone you are not
No one wants to be with a fake person. You should be sincere and honest. Only in this way he will really love you. Remember, that love is always based on trust and respect. Being someone you are not you just lie to him and don't admire.
#8. Sending mixed signals
You should always say what you really think or want. It's not OK if you tell him that he can go out with his friends and get angry and offended when he really goes. You should just be patient and keep your word.
The majority of men don't like all this stuff. Of course, women sometimes like to discuss their friends and relatives together. If you also like to comment other people's lives, at least don't do it in front of your man. You shouldn't also criticize yourself and your loved one.
#10. Arriving late
Some women think that a real lady should always come later than man. This is a big mistake. Men like punctual women. Of course, he will wait for you if you have some reasons to come later, but if it will become your habit, sooner or later it will irritate him and he will leave.
#11. Becoming his clone
Of course, it's great when you find someone who has similar tastes, points of view and stuff like that. But it's great only if it's true. You shouldn't do everything like he does. If you don't like something or have another opinion, you should be honest. Be yourself, if you want him to be with you.
#12. Being petty
Of course, he is a real man and he should pay for his lady. But it doesn't mean that you should demand him to do it. Moreover, sometimes you should offer to pay for your dinner, for example. He might not let you to do it, but you can at least try.
We at BetterMe want everyone to know and experience true love. It is out there for everyone and until it knocks on your door we are here to remind you that you deserve the best love!
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